A year in review - 2023

My fifth year in review. The importance of these reviews increases as the years go on. A time to reflect, forgive, celebrate, and move on from the current year. The headline is that this year was a little darker, however, that means there was a lot to be learned, so let’s get into it.

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Coming to America - Part 8 (Final)

I want to focus this last blog on my learnings over the last 10-years since I first arrived in America. Particularly for those of you who plan or are doing the same thing in some capacity. Now, I could write a list of 100 things I’ve learnt during this time, but I’ll try to just focus on 10, and maybe we can discuss others in the comments.

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Coming to America - Part 7

In this chapter, we will dive deeper into the nuances of the green card (GC) process and being able to live in America like a regular human being, so stick with me. Quick disclaimer that this is all from my perspective of applying for a GC when you are already married.

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Coming to America - Part 6

At the end of 2018, I was preparing to move back to England after finishing both my university degree and OPT visa (1-year work visa for students who graduate in the US). The big pull to move back was to itch a couple desires and get England out of my system as much as possible before inevitably moving back to the US.

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A year in review - 2022

Welcome back to another year in review. In this blog, I look back on my year and share with you the trials and tribulations over the past 12 months. Change is again the key theme of this blog, as has been the constant in my life over the past 5 years. This is the fourth year of this series and each year it becomes more important that I do it. It has become such a powerful tool for reflecting and unlocking parts of my brain I may have closed off throughout the year. So, let’s get into it.

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A year in review - 2021

I’m ending the year not too distant from how it started, only this time the lock down is self-imposed due to catching omicron. Alas, I’m in good health and after weeks of trying to find the brain space to collate my thoughts I’m here, ready to share another year in review.

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A year in review - 2020

How do I begin to collate my thoughts and wrap up a year so different to what most of us could comprehend. After reading last year’s blog, summarizing my year and looking forward at what was to come, I just chuckle to myself. In that, I have realized that while I will always have grand plans and ambitions, much of it can’t be predicted.

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A word on race

Stereotypes. We all have them and depending on where you are in the world they all can affect you differently. Race is something I’ve never really spoken about out loud and have honestly chosen to ignore most my life as I’ve never really known how to act on it. Yet, with the growing unrest in US it feels more important than ever to share my story and be a part of the change.

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You're not that hard.

It’s a very bleak Wednesday morning and I’ve just got back from what should have been a rehab training session, unfortunately cut short due to shooting pain. You see, for almost 7 months now I’ve been battling with a knee injury that just won’t seem to get better.

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A year in review - 2019

It’s Saturday December 14th. I’m currently flying to America to spend Christmas with Alana and I’m sat here reflecting on the last 5 months since I moved to London. My last blog keeping it real took a dive into the up’s and downs of moving to a new city and trying to find your own space…

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Keeping it real

Reality is a bitch. No matter how you frame it or try to shape it, every now and then, it’s going to take a shot. Now, it’s been nearly two months since I moved to London and being completely honest, it hasn’t been the easiest. Starting again, a new job, a new city, new faces, new routines…

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Starting again

So, it was only a month ago I wrote a blog about moving back in and the trials and tribulations that went along with it. I mentioned while not forever, I was enjoying my time back in Notts. Well, a month on and I’m moving back out…

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Moving back in

We’re in May now, so it’s been about 5 months since I moved back to England, back into my parent’s house. It’s almost been a culture adjustment moving back into my own culture, so I want to go over some of the trials and tribulations of the transition…

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The art of learning to learn

From the minute we arrive into this world, we begin to learn. We start with learning about the people surrounding us, learning words, learning to walk and to play. Before you know it,  we’re in school, learning to read and to write. Then, depending on our environment and genes, we start…

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Becoming that Guy

All the pictures I’ve taken, videos I’ve made, blogs written, miles collected, and t-shirts made have been an attempt to push me closer to some goal I can’t seem to define. Being a strong subscriber to the ‘do it now’ approach, less talk more action, blah blah I’m in a constant pursuit…

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Coming to America - Part 5

So the last time I updated you on my coming to America story, I was 3 months into my job working as an account executive for an office technology company in Charlotte, NC. I had not yet tackled the issue of sponsorship and was simply enjoying the young professional life of a 20…

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Shopping in Charlotte, NC - Top 5

Fashion is probably my longest passion and is something I have yet to share with you. Since I can remember I have been interested in clothes and sneakers (trainers for my U.K. people). I can remember spending every cent I made on my paper rounds on some new item…

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